conscious love, since it does not expect anything in return, it can be understood as an irradiation. When love is expressed in this way, it is not something that is done but something that happens. The motivation of the acts of a person who does not consciously love is related to the search for the repetition of a pleasant sensation, that is, with the ego. Therefore, where the difference between loving with or without conscience really exists is in the motivation that sustains the acts. Loving as an action is not possible if consciousness is not integrated. Although it may seem complicated, this emotion is intrinsic to your true nature, but due to the mental program by which we function, you have moved away. So to live love consciously you first have to understand it, the problem is that by not knowing what it is specifically, you try to give something that you do not have, in other words, you cannot love others if you do not love yourself first. And how do you know if you love yourself? Well, very easy, if you deny yourself any emotion of poor quality and anything that does not suit you.