energy in relationships

Today I want to talk to you about a very interesting topic: how much our energy has to do when choosing booths. Basically the energy manifests itself in three different ways: - The cardinal: it is the energy of the impulse. They are usually enterprising people, psychologically fast, with ease to open doors but do not specify. - The fixed: it is the energy of structuring. They are people with the ability to build, organize, make things happen and ideas come to fruition. Although on the other hand when they fix something they have a hard time changing. - The mutable: it is the energy of contact. They are people who are very easy to relate to and can understand the two previous positions. We all have the three energies, although there is one that fundamentally conditions psychology. The people you feel attracted to are of a different energy because you naturally seek complementation, therefore, how much more attraction, passion, etc. there will also be more conflict in the relationship, precisely because there is more to develop. The interesting thing about this is that the more you develop, the more you learn, and that means that you acquire more wisdom and adaptability that you can apply in any area of ​​your life.

Therefore, what happens when you fall in love is that after the stage of initial blindness, you begin to see the psychological aspects of the other that reflect your polarities. That situation without conscience generates conflict because each one is at an extreme. But when you are clear about what is happening and that the purpose of existence is to evolve, you can act accordingly, feeling psychologically well, focused and seeing the situation as an opportunity for growth. So, everything you see in your partner and that moves you is what you have to work on, instead of changing in the other. It is about understanding the other pole of the expression of your mechanism and integrating it. It is there, in understanding, when you become something different, and that causes the situation to take shape externally in a new way until the conflict disappears. Irune.